Gonna stop trying...
I've decided that my husband and I are under a lot of stress so we're going to stop trying to conceive for a while. I don't really know how long that's going to be, but things just aren't working out in that area of our life and I'm feeling really down about it. I mean depressed really. It's been 13 months and things haven't gone the way I thought they would. So we're going to take it easy and just enjoy life. I will continue the Chinese herbs and will add in the acupuncture for relaxation. I've stopped the charting and temperature taking (as a matter of fact I've shredded all my paper charts and tossed my thermometer) and just everything and I'm simply going to live life and try to relax about things. I know that there will be children in our future because I know I'm healthy, just not now.
On a more positive note, my husband has just accepted a job position in Portland, Maine! So we'll be moving in 2 weeks. Basically, we're going to pay someone to pack our house and move it to our new home. We'll be going in a week to the area to look for a house to rent for now. We really want to get to know the area before we decide on a neighborhood to move into. I'm very excited about our move so I'm looking forward to getting to know another community and enjoying our life close to the shore.
I've decided that my husband and I are under a lot of stress so we're going to stop trying to conceive for a while. I don't really know how long that's going to be, but things just aren't working out in that area of our life and I'm feeling really down about it. I mean depressed really. It's been 13 months and things haven't gone the way I thought they would. So we're going to take it easy and just enjoy life. I will continue the Chinese herbs and will add in the acupuncture for relaxation. I've stopped the charting and temperature taking (as a matter of fact I've shredded all my paper charts and tossed my thermometer) and just everything and I'm simply going to live life and try to relax about things. I know that there will be children in our future because I know I'm healthy, just not now.
On a more positive note, my husband has just accepted a job position in Portland, Maine! So we'll be moving in 2 weeks. Basically, we're going to pay someone to pack our house and move it to our new home. We'll be going in a week to the area to look for a house to rent for now. We really want to get to know the area before we decide on a neighborhood to move into. I'm very excited about our move so I'm looking forward to getting to know another community and enjoying our life close to the shore.
posted by kemicutie @ 3:42 PM
8 Comments:
At 1:33 PM,
Unknown said…
OOOh, how awesome!! You say Maine and I think Pipi Longstocking... growing up on the shore... although i think she lived on Prince Edward Island... but no matter. Sounds like a perfect place to raise kids! Congrats on the job!
At 1:32 PM,
~Fe~ said…
Believe me when you STOP trying that is when it will happen. Just have some fun :o) it'll happen.
At 8:55 AM,
foosrock! said…
It'll work, just destressed by not forcing it (if I may be so bold as to add any advice).
Good luck to you and yours with everything.
At 6:57 PM,
SeZ said…
Don't give up yet, we as women think about things so much we can stress ourselves out. I know I can! When you least except it Boom your pregnant :-)
At 12:07 PM,
SeZ said…
Just checking back in on your current state. Many blessings.
At 4:55 PM,
still waters said…
Be gentle with yourself is all I will say not that you are asking for any advice. I think once you stop 'trying' the chance of it happening will be greater. Congrats to your DH and on the move !!!
one loves still
At 8:59 AM,
Anonymous said…
Due to finance, we are not "thinking" about having babies! However, we are keeping our options open for adoption if things get better during the next decade {10 yrs.}
Take Care~
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